Pay It Forward -Fast Food Style!

So, there you are on Jane’s Day of Service – or any day of the year – sitting in the line at a drive-through, feeling impatient and hungry and distracted by all of the to-dos still left un-done on your list. You glance into the rear view mirror and it’s an older couple, or a scowling businesswoman or a young man looking out the window absently. And then you remember that everyone has a lot on their minds and in their hearts.

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Paying it forward is as easy as asking the drive-through person peering at you from the window how much the bill is for the car behind you. Then you pay for all or part of their ticket. If you can spare a buck or two or five – that’s OK. If you don’t flinch at buying the 15 burgers and drinks for the soccer team the woman behind you was picking up – go for it!

Just be sure to say, “Please ask them to Pay It Forward, too. Thanks!”

And there it is – you have made someone’s day a little happier; you’ve surprized a stranger with a good deed – and ideally inspired them to do the same in their travels. Mona/Jane would be delighted!

Please share the ways you’ve paid-it-forward, and your reaction to having been the recipient of such thoughtfulness. Do you have additional ideas, suggestions, ways more people might take part? Please share them with us!

Thank you.

 

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A Passion for Gardening

(Contributed by Susan Ray)

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Jane’s Day of Service on February 28th, is the perfect time to begin your garden and/or volunteer with your local community garden! Mona/Jane always said that the winter months are perfect for perusing seed catalogues, and ideal for reviewing notes from last year’s garden to learn which plants flourished and which varieties might have struggled. Snowy days offer the best opportunity to reassess, to dream, to plan – and to order early lettuce and unusual green bean seeds!

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Mona/Jane loved to share her garden with family and friends. As her granddaughter-in-law and I can attest, every plant came with information and a tutorial. Mint, sage, thyme and savory are all in the same family of plants. Carrots like stone-free, loose soil, whereas squash is practically a weed, so it will grow almost anywhere given space and sunlight.

Finding the place in the yard where a plant is ‘happy’ is vital, as is knowing each one’s characteristics. For example, tomatoes are delighted when borage, peppers and basil share a large container pot, but those same tomato plants will suffer if cabbages and cauliflower are not grown some distance away.

One of the many ways you can take part in Jane’s Day of Service is by planting a few flower or vegetable seeds in a flower pot on your windowsill or get involved with your local community garden. If you have no interest in plants beyond enjoying the fragrance of a flower, you can adopt a garden in New England, in CincinnatiKansas City, New York City – almost anywhere in the US.

Another option if you are one of those special and much-appreciated Green Thumbers is to teach current and new generations about the benefits of gardening by becoming a Master Gardener,  or by teaching a class to local 4-H members.

 

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If you’d rather not commit to a garden, but enjoy crafts, love spring and find joy in brightening other people’s gray days, you can easily make living baskets for friends or as gifts to drop off at a senior center or youth home.

One of Mona/Jane’s favorite projects was creating grass and flower filled baskets for living Easter or Mother’s Day baskets complete with miniature rakes, benches, and dyed eggs.

These are really quite easy to make and can be as simple or as extravagant as your time and imagination allow.

  • Begin with any size basket – thrift stores have plenty to choose from during the colder months.
  • Line the inside with a hole-free plastic bag. Make sure there are no splits or tears that might allow water to seep through later.
  • Fill with good quality dirt, then plant wheat berries or grass seed.
  • Water generously, but do not make a soup of seeds and dirt.
  • Place basket in sunny place and keep moist, not wet – and out of the reach of pets if indeed you’d like a healthy crop of green in approximately two weeks.
  • As the grass grows, you might need to ‘mow’ it occasionally with a pair of scissors.
  • When ready to give the basket as a gift, poke the stems of cut flowers into the soil, tuck miniature eggs beneath the lush grass, or place small figures, and/or gardening tools on low-cut plots of grass. (If feeling especially gardenny, include small, living flowering plants such as miniature daisies or carpet tulips, etc.)
  • Be sure to include a note about the need to provide sunlight and water for the plants, and ways in which the contents can be composted and recycled.

This is a fun way an individual or a group can participate in Jane’s Day of Service and share their love of gardening and flowers with folks who might need a little more sunshine in their lives. It’s relatively inexpensive, but the happiness it brings is priceless!

Please let us know how you used your love of plants and/or crafting to take part in Jane’s Day of Service. We’d love to see – and share – your photos, too!

Thank you.

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Martin Luther King, Jr. Day Events

martin-luther-king-180477_1920For almost 50 years, people throughout the world have not only remembered Dr. King, but have put his profound lessons and peaceful message to work.

On the third Monday of every January, men, women, and children participate in acts of service, connect with their own and different faith communities, and search for opportunities to carry on the dream in ways that have personal meaning to them.

If you need ideas for ways to participate, or if you’d like to share more links to local events, please visit the CONNECT page, above.

Please share your own plans for celebrating the life of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. in the comments section below, and/or on our Facebook page:

http://www.facebook.com/JanesDayOfService/

 

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Thank you for sharing your experiences and for your service.

 

 

Women in Black

Every Friday afternoon throughout the world, women of different faiths, different cultures, and different political views are united in silent vigil against violence, war and injustice. Meeting at a specific location on a regular basis, these women – and sometimes men – hold signs, wear black and remain peaceful.

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The current form of Women in Black began in 1988, when Jewish women and Palestinian women  stood in silent protest to occupation and war. Over time more and more women in more and more countries joined this movement – lending their silent support to the stand against war, violence and injustice. These demonstrators do not yell, chant or incite – instead they act quietly with dignity, strength and conviction.

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Anyone can join these ongoing groups, and anyone can organize their own silent protest. This is less a group as it is a gathering; a place and time for people to come together to take a common stand for justice, for understanding, for peace.

For more information, please visit:

http://womeninblack.org/

Compassion in Action

WHEN:

Tuesday, February 28, 2017

WHAT:

Jane’s Day of Service – a day spent doing what YOU feel will bring more peace, more harmony, more happiness to your corner of the world. You might read to the visually impaired, or take your neighbor’s trash can to the curb, or write a thank you note to someone you’ve been impacted by recently. Or you might take some breakfast cereal or cans of beef stew to a food pantry, or give flowers to a stranger waiting for a bus … whatever moves you, whatever matters to you. That’s the thing to do.

WHO:

You and me and everyone we know. This day offers everyone an opportunity to realize that alone or with friends -each and every one of us can make a substantial difference in the life experience of another person. We do have choices. Even if we might not be able to change the world – we can definitely brighten one corner of the universe we know best.

WHY:

Because the world needs people to show up, to love and care for one another actively – and to find positive outlets for worry and frustration instead of bemoaning the truth that ‘somebody ought to do something about that’. Yes – someone should – and that someone is me and you. No matter how small the act – it’s the action, the choice to DO that makes all the difference.

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To honor and remember my beloved mother

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Welcome to Jane’s Day of Service

Mardis Gras means fun and wild abandon and celebration. What if all of that good cheer and sense of community could last far beyond the wee hours?

Consider sharing a little of that laughter and great food and joy with your neighbor, or the local animal shelter or someone you’ve seen often enough in town, but you don’t really know.

On Jane’s Day of Service, everyone is invited to choose a positive action that means something to them personally – and do it! Donating books, buying a cup of coffee for the next person in line, visiting a retirement center with your guitar or favorite book or watercolors  — whatever feels right to you … and you … and you –  that’s the thing to do.

It’s a happy day that gives us all an excuse to be kind, to be generous – to be like Jane!